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♞♞博马♞♞波波教你如何修心养性
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    修心:使心灵纯洁
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     养性:使本性不受损害。通过自我反省体察,使身心达到完美的境界
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不要老是惦念明天的事,也不要总是懊悔昨天发生的事,而把精神集中在今天要干什么上。因为遗憾、悔恨、内疚和难过并不能改变过去,只会使当前的工作难以进行下去。" v) y! x9 o  Y& m& G/ n! U

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0 @, b+ f% Q5 a3 X  \我们对远方发生的事无能为力,想也没有用;杞人忧天,徒劳无益;惶惶不安,对于事情毫无帮助。记住自己就是生活在此处此地,而不是遥远的其他地方。
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愉快和不愉快是相对的,也是可以相互转化的。因此,人们要有接受不愉快情绪的思想准备。如果一个人成年累月,总是“愉快”、“兴奋”,那反而是不正常现象.
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人们往往容易在别人稍有差错或者失败的时候,就立刻下结论。“格式塔疗法”认为,对他人的态度和处理人际关系的正确做法应该是:先不要判断,先要谈出你是怎样认为的。这样做,就可以防止和避免与他人不必要的磨擦和矛盾冲突,而你自己也可以避免产生无谓的烦恼与苦闷。9 ]3 Y8 w+ a0 L/ Y4 u0 x" W4 i3 n
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不要说什么,我若是某某人我就一定会成功。应该从自己的起点做起,充分发挥自己的潜能。不必怨天尤人;要“从我做起,从现在做起”,竭尽全力地发挥自己的才能,做好我能够做的事情。
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人们往往容易逃避责任。比如,考试成绩不好,会把失败原因归罪为自己的家庭环绕不好,学校不好;工作不好,会推诿说领导不力,条件太差等。把自己的过错、失败都推到客观原因上。“格式塔疗法”的一项重要原则,就是要求自己做事自己承担责任。
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修心养性,就是让人心不致动荡不安,达到陶冶情操,平衡心态,事事想得通,顺其自然规律,积极适应环境,把握好自己的情绪,做到控制好自己心情,不生不切实际的妄念。这样人体心情处在心平气和状态下,生理功能平和有序,达到了养生保健,心理平衡,心态良好,这种状态就有利于身心健康。
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6 j) p% V% Y, q2 u在此,波波特此与大家分享修心养性之道,不仅在人际生活中,事业中,而且在进行投注的过程中,也是起到决定性的作用的,人的性格决定以后是否成功,性格不易更改,但是后期的培养却可以改变以后的道路,波波衷心希望大家在日常生活中也能修心养性,找回自己,展现出最好的自己!
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